Thursday, December 31, 2009

Being a Helpmeet


Genesis 2:18 "The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him."

My husband, Alfred, works so hard to provide for our family. He must go out into the world each day and deal with untold stress, aggravation, and competition. He does so willingly so I can remain at home with our children and keep the home fires burning.

I try to do things that will make his life easier and more pleasant. On especially cold mornings, I go out and start his car so it's warm when he gets into it and spray it down with water to remove the frosty build-up from the windows. I make his coffee first thing in the morning. I prepare his lunch and fill a thermos full of tea for him to take to work. I help get ready in the morning, getting out his uniform, socks, boots, and coat. I walk out with him and send him off with a kiss and I love you.

When he returns home, I greet him a smile and a tall glass of tea. Dinner is either already or prepared or nearly done, for I know he is tired and hungry after a long 11 hour day away from home. I prepare his dinner plate and often run his bath water. I listen as he shares about his day. I cuddle with him at night because he needs me...he needs the closeness and to reconnect.

I love him and want to ease his burdens. I allow him time to rest and recharge each night so he can face another day in the working world. Does it seem like I give too much? Believe me, I have the better part. My job as keeper at home is a cake walk compared to the daily challenges he must deal with.

I give because I love, because I am thankful, and because this is the life God has called me to.

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Collages


Kenzie strikin' poses


Kendall, my handsome boy


Kayla, Kenzie, and my youngest sis Taylor


Various pictures of family...


Someone likes the camera....Kenzie. :)


Scuba!


These are the Diva checks I ordered....super cute!

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Offering Hospitality


 One of the things I love about being home is being able to offer hospitality to family and friends who stop by to visit. I offer homemade cookies and cakes and if it's around a meal time, I offer what I am serving for said meal. We don't eat lavishly. I prepare good 'ole southern homecookin'. I am always on the lookout for new frugal recipes to try in order to keep our meals from becoming boring. And I always try to make enough to have leftovers to send with Alfred for lunch the following day.

It does my heart good to be able to prepare bountiful meals where everyone has enough to eat and comes away from the family dinner table with full bellies. Several times a week I prepare baked goodies for my family to snack on: a variety of cookies, cakes, brownies, and muffins. If we have snacks, all is well as far as my family is concerned.

Another thing I like to do on occasion is send baked goods with Alfred to work. These goodies are always gobbled up. It seems that baking is becoming more rare these days and what a shame that is. So the homemade goodies are always greatly appreciated amongst his coworkers.

Offering hospitality is becoming a thing of the past. A perfect home and a fancy meal are not necessary to be hospitable. People just want to be loved, listened to, and encouraged. They do not want to be impressed. Let us reach out to others and give from our hearts.

Proverbs 15:17 "Better a meal of vegetables where there is love than a fattened calf with hatred." 

My Journal








Just some fun doodles in my journal...

Monday, December 28, 2009

Living On a Wing and a Prayer



Much of my time lately has been spent in the kitchen - whipping up pancakes, cupcakes, big pots of chili and chicken noodle soup....foods that are filling, comforting, and simple yet delicious. My chief concerns as a wife and mother are that my family is well-fed and have plenty to eat and are clean, warm, and loved.

Alfred's work is slow. With it being just after Christmas, a lot of people are not having their vehicles worked on. But I try not to fret because things have a way of working out.

Recently we were unexpectedly blessed with a generous gift - Dining On a Dime Cookbook (what a treasure trove!), a note with $60 tucked inside, and gifts for the girls - lip glosses, crayons, markers, activity books, and $11 for each one. Today, we were blessed yet again with $75 from Alfred's uncle who had sold a car part for him.

These gifts, these blessings, humble me. They remind me that I am not in control, that I am dependent on the great I AM. He who cares for the birds of the air and clothes the flowers of the field, will He not also care for me, clothe me, and provide for my needs? He has proven time and time again that He can, He does, and He will.

It does me no good to worry and fret. It is better for me to stay calm and peaceful, working in my home creating nourishing meals, providing a soothing atmosphere, reading stories to my girls, listening to Kendall when he needs to talk, meeting Alfred with a smile when he returns from work frustrated and discouraged.

It isn't always easy to live on a wing and a prayer. It forces me to be creative, to count my blessings, and to pray. It keeps me close to Jesus.


Matthew 6: 25-34 "Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?"

"And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."

Dreaming of Arts and Crafts



Kenzie received a set of watercolor pencils and watercolor paper and I have been enjoying trying them out. Their colors are much more vibrant than regular color pencils and once I read up on how to use them I find it quite satisfying to sit and draw and then give it a light water wash.

Browsing around on Flickr has me itching to craft and create.


I have decided to allocate myself funds as I am able to buy art supplies. Alfred has his diving. I shall have my arts and crafts! I am not expecting perfection or pressure to create brilliant masterpieces. That kind of thinking only held me back in the past, but no more. I just want to have fun, create, and enjoy the process.

Right now, I have many cross-stitch projects I can work on. I can draw and use Kenzie's watercolor pencils with permission! I can try my hand at decorating cakes and cupcakes {I am really bad at this, so I need lots of practice!}. I can go through my magazines and create collages. I have a pink journal {thanks Joel!} that I have started doodling/drawing in and then I write. I found it quite fun and satisfying.

 Besides going to bookstores and libraries, craft stores are my favorite places to visit!

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Some Art








Gratitude List ~ Weeks 51-52



This is the last Sunday of 2009. It is hard to believe that another year has come and gone, but it's been a year filled with gratitude for things large and small.

1. Having my husband's heart.

2. Joel, Alfred's son, is here with us for a week.

3. I am drawing and doodling again.

4. My Striped Delight dessert received big raves from all who tried it. It is soooo good!

5. A pink checkbook cover and Diva checks - so cute!

6. Switching our banking over to a federal credit union which will save us $72/year in fees.

7. Goodnight hugs and kisses from my children - even Kendall who is soon to be 17.

8. The quiet of Winter that stirs up feelings of creativity and crafting to while away the seemingly long cold days.

9. My pink fleece pajama pants Mama gave me for Christmas that Rudolph, Santa, and my favorite, the Abominable Snowman!!!

10. Working on a 19" x 28" Marilyn Monroe puzzle - another gift from Mama.

What were you most thankful for this year?

Saturday, December 26, 2009

The Christmas Letter


Dear Tracy,

Merry Christmas, baby. I love you so much. I'm such a lucky man to have you as my partner in our journey down this road called life. I know I stumble sometimes, but you are always there to help me back up. Thank you for just being you and taking me as your soul-mate. You are the greatest wife a man could ask for. You are my life and I love you for all that you do. Thank you for treating Joel as if he was both of ours. It's hard to believe that I have three teens now, and I love all four of my children. They are all so good. As I look at other families, I realize just how lucky we are. God has blessed us so much.

You are the reason I work so hard. I want you to be happy and have nice things. That's why I try so hard. I know I come home sometimes and act like a bear and I am truly sorry. Thank you for putting up with me. The girls had to read this. They said it was nice. Anyway, where was I? Oh yes, I think back to what it was like before I met you. I was so lonely. Even the times I was with another female, I was still alone. I never knew what real love was. But you showed me what real love was and can be. You gave me the best gift ever, a great family and a wonderful, beautiful, caring wife. I would give my life for you. You are my world.

I'm sorry for not being able to get you a gift for this holiday season, but I hope this letter makes up a little for my short fall. I love you dearly. All I wanted for Christmas this year is for all of my family to get nice gifts and be together. I love you with all my heart and soul.

Your loving husband,
Alfred

Friday, December 25, 2009

Christmas Day


From our home to yours, Merry Christmas!

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Christmas Eve


My girls are up bright and early tracking Santa on Norad. I have a busy day ahead of me, bustling around taking care of last minute details, tidying the house to create a festive atmosphere, and making spirits bright.


I've baked up a storm this week, both for my family's enjoyment and to give as gifts. I even sent some with Alfred to work to share with coworkers. Who doesn't love homemade cookies?

Wishing you a lovely day filled with family, love, joy, and peace!

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

A Handmade Christmas part 2


Another sweet Christmas post from Connie at Happy Housewifery.


You know what, Christmas Mothers? Children don't know that you are poor unless you tell them. Some years, we had so very little money to spend at Christmas, and some years, we had more. But you know, if you just have a little gift for the children to open up under the tree, that is enough.

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We mothers used to mainly make our Christmas with our hands. I would make the cut out cookies galore. They are so simple to make with just the most basic ingredients, and then I would frost them with simple butter frosting. Just melt some margarine in a pan and add a bit of milk, and then start adding powdered sugar until it is thick. Add a bit of vanilla if you have it. I would frost the cookies and then sprinkle colored sugar over the top.
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I made my colored sugar with food coloring. Just put some sugar in a cup and add the food coloring and mix it up. Beet juice could be used to color sugar, just a little bit ... it willl turn out an old fashioned red. Making the colored sugar with the plain white crystal sugar makes the cookies look so much more old fashioned and pretty. If you have some kool-aid, you could mix it with a drop of water and color your sugar with that. Just put about a half cup of sugar in a bowl and put the coloring in, just a drop, and then it will dry pretty fast. I save mine, too, until I decorate again.
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I have the old Amish mother and father cookie cutters. Mary has made so many cookies with these and decorated with maybe 3 different kinds of sugar on each cookie. Just smooth it on with your fingers. We haven't made any cookies yet. I have been making other things.
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You can just take an afternoon and make cookies with the children. They would love that. Tell them that this is their Christmas and that they can make their own cookies. We used to always save our coffee cans and decorate them with Christmas paper, and then we would put cookies in them. Maybe the children could decorate their own containers and put their own cookies in them. It's a simple project. I used to cut a brown paper sack, lay it out flat, and then wad it up so it would look old, then cover my can with this. Then I would tie a brown string around it. Maybe the children could color on the paper that covers their cans. And then maybe you could make special cookies for them to open on Christmas morning, too.
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You know, the old time Mothers never bought much for the family for Christmas. It was mainly handmade things. And their Christmases were so beautiful.
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I think a mother who can set a festive Christmas table is worth her weight in gold. To just put a candle on the table and light it, and just make it pretty. My grandma Jaunita used to use her red and white linens at Christmas. She didn't have fancy tablecloths with a Christmas design, but she would just use a tablecloth that had red and white flowers on it. Oh, she would set a beautiful table. So many of us have dishes that we never use. Let's get them it out and use them this Christmas. I have a lovely set, white with red roses on them. I must get them out tomorrow. Papa has a box under the tree for me. I know it is a set of Christmas dishes. The children and their Daddy always know what to buy Mama ... "dishes." Danny, last year, got me dessert plates at the dollar store for a buck each ... the Currier and Ives, each with a different winter scene on them.
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Also, I left my big table out with the two leaves in it from Thanksgiving. This way, I have fixed a place at the end for us to eat our meals, and the other end I use for baking. I have my white poinsettas in the middle. I don't have the counter space, so I just make a space to mix my sausage and to do other kitchen chores at the end of the table. I made a second batch of sausage this afternoon. I have to knead it on the table. I will give some of this away for Christmas.
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I try to have my cassette recorder out and the Christmas songs playing, and the candles lit on the table as I cook and make things for Christmas. I think that Mother brings in the Christmas spirit to the family. We need so much to make a shelter for family, and the Christmas season is the time to do it.
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One year, I had a lot of cranberries in my freezer and strawberries, too. I made the cranberries as usual, as the directions said. Then I added the strawberries and mixed them up, adding sugar until I thought it was good and tasty. The cranberries thickened the strawberries and it made a wonderful jam. I called it Christmas Jam. I put in in jars and gave it away for Christmas. As long as you have the cranberries to thicken the jam, you could use red raspberries or apples to make your jam, and even apricots. Oh, yum, that sounds so good!

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

A Handmade Christmas

This is one of my favorite Christmas writings by Mrs. Connie Hultquist from her Happy Housewifery website. My favorite parts are in italics. I hope you enjoy it and find as much inspiration from it as I do!



Dear Wise Christmas Sisters,
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Yesterday, Papa and me went to the Dollar Store, and I got so many cute things. I put way more in my shopping basket than what I need. Then, just before I got to the check out, I put a bunch of stuff back. I will say about candy and crackers, "Oh, I don't need them I can make them." And I will look over my cart and think of what I can make at home and not buy.
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I used to make crackers out of left over bread dough. Just roll out the bread dough really thin and then cut it in squares with a pizza cutter. Then prick holes in the squares and salt them or put parmesan cheeese over the top, and bake them like cookies. You could put garlic and pepper on them. But the old time Mothers never bought crackers ... they made them.
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And I used to make bread sticks a lot to use with soup. Just take your bread dough and flatten it on a pan and let it rise about 15 minutes ... not long. Then just cut strips with your pizza cutter. I would fix these plain and then, when they came out of the oven, I would butter them and put Parmesan cheese on 'em. Our children would eat these as they played outside on winter evenings after supper. They would run in the house, "Mom, can I bring out bread sticks for Nathan and Tiffany?" (neighbor children.) I would say "Sure, I have plenty." And my bread sticks were big and fat and, when you ate one, you got filled up.
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Anytime I made bread, I made a lot of dough and made bread rolls, cinnamon rolls, and a few loaves of bread. At Christmas, I would take my bread dough and make 3 long strands of bread. I would sugar and spice the long ropes with cinnamon and brown sugar and butter. Then I would braid the pieces. Sometimes, I would put the braided dough on a long cookie sheet and then flatten it so it would be wide, then let it rise and bake it. After it was done, I would decorate the bread. Sometimes, I would sprinkle on homemade green sugar. But then sometimes, I would put some butter frosting on it and color this green. Then I would take the marachino cherries, slice them in half, and put them on the bread. And then put pecans on it, like every other one. Pecan and then cherry, etc., down the center of the loaf. If ya just used a package of pecans sparingly, and the cherries, you can make a lot of Christmas bread with them. Then sometimes I would make the cinnamon braid and I would put it in a circle and bake it like that, in a round pan. Or make a circle with the dough and put it on a large cookie sheet and it will turn out like a Christmas wreath. And then just decorate it like a Christmas Wreath.
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You could even use the frozen bread dough for some of this until you felt sure enough of yourself to make your own. But a bread machime, I think, would interrupt my creativity. But, ya know, with a big family I would just make up a big bunch of bread dough and make things for Christmas. And we always give Christmas bread to the neighbors. To use the frozen bread dough, just put your loaf out on the cupboard and let it soften, and then slice it length wise in thirds. Then butter it and put the cinnamon on it and the brown or white sugar. Then braid it up tight and put it in a loaf pan and let it rise, and bake it. When it is done and cooled, you could frost it with butter frosting. White frosting with colored sugar on the top looks "Christmasy." Or stick nuts and cherries on the top of the bread, down in the frosting, so it will stick good.
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Butter Frosting:
Just take a stick of butter, put it in your sauce pan, and melt it. Put in about a fourth cup of milk. Then, just add as much powdered sugar as ya need to make a thick frosting. (I have never used a recipe for this -- sorry.) But then, at the end, just put in vanilla. There were years, back raising the children, that I would run out of powdered sugar. So I would use half powdered sugar and half flour. I really like it better with using half flour. Ya have to keep stirring when ya use the flour and let it thicken.
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And, ya know, I couldn't afford all the sugars when we had all the kids home. Often, I would make the powdered sugar with putting plain table sugar in my blender with a bit of white flour, and then just blend it up. This makes a nice powdered sugar, and often I would add molasses to my white sugar to make brown sugar. Heck, if I got white sugar and plenty of it for baking, I was cookin' on all 4 burners, huh?
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But I always just made up my mind that my children would not have lean Christmases, as long as I could buy flour and lard and sugar. I mean, I would not confess negative over my Home Christmas. If the children would ask to invite the neighbor children in for cocoa and treats, then I made the children welcome. My children were proud of Mama, that she made such good holiday treats. And, of course, many of the neighbor children had never tasted a homemade cookie, and they loved my baked goods. But I would just try to be gracious and kind hearted and enjoy the children.
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Often, we didn't have a pot to pee in or a window to throw it out of ... just kidding. But, ya know, I would just get busy and make a Christmas. Papa would haul in a big 50 pound bag of white flour on his shoulder and I would make Christmas out of it. Papa would carry it in at Christmas and slam it on the table like it was fresh meat, and he would say, "There ya go, woman ... ya got flour." And with some meat and some potatoes and vegetables, we raised 6 children, and always had a Merry Christmas.
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And I never started baking for Christmas unless I had a pot of homemade soup bubbling on the stove. Even if I started early morning, I had to have soup on the stove. Because once I got going on the baking, I didn't want to stop and make dinner. So the older kids could serve their own soup and fix some for the little ones while I baked. It is a common sight to see spilled soup on my table, mixed with flour. Because I never baked without making soup first And then I would make the bread dough as the soup simmered. Then the first part of the dough I would make pan rolls. I would just take the dough before it rose and put it on my baking sheet and cut it like a cake? Then I just had this to rise once and I baked it, and it was ready for the family for lunch ... just pan rolls.
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But I was not a stingy mother who was always yelling out, "Don't eat that! We wont have enough." My children were all thin, and still are, but I always made sure that my children were well fed. I didn't want them to get sick, as we couldn't afford a doctor. So they had plenty of fresh fruit and vegetables, and much homemade vegetable soups and stews. I didn't think about vitamins; I thought about having a wholesome homemade home to raise my babies in. I thought of their souls and their comfort.
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I always had the coffee on for Papa ... he needed it ... it was a comfort to him, and especially at Christmas, with a piece of cherry pie. A cup of coffee is very comforting to a man, and a hot supper.
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A wise Mother builds her house, and especially at Christmas time.
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Make a homemade Christmas for your dear Families ... don't think about going to the store first. Go through the pantry cupboards and look at what you have. Do you have some hamburger, and some potatoes and vegetables? Fry up some meat with some onions and fresh pepper and salt. This is the smell of home and family. After the meat has cooked, just throw in some tomato soup and start adding vegetables. Add water to cover the vegetables. Let this cook slowly on the stove, or bake it in a slow oven for a few hours.
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Then, if you have no flour or sugar, at least you have lunch started, and you can make a quick trip to the store. But if you have flour and sugar, just stay home and start making Christmas.
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If you have to go out, here is a list of things you may need.
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1.Well, first off make sure you have plenty of flour and sugar, and shortening or lard.
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2.I always have cocoa in my cupboard.
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3.Do you have cinnamon? For winter, I often fix a shaker of cinnamon and sugar for the table or to put next to the stove to cook with.
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4.And, even now, as the children are grown, I still have a huge box of instant milk that I cook with. Baby Rose drinks a lot of fresh whole milk, so I sometimes run out of milk and the instant milk is very handy to have to cook and bake with. And God knows I NEVER measure instant milk. To make gravy or to bake with, just throw some dry milk in, and add water until it looks right. If I had to measure stuff all the time, I would be as crazy as a Loon. Not to mention, I wouldn't get anything else done.
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5.Well, ya need eggs ...do ya have some? No? Well, write it down on your list.
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6.Ya got chocolate chips? If you can afford them, be sure to get some for the Christmas Chocolate Chip Cookies. And, heck, you don't need to put a whole package in your recipe. Just use a fourth of a bag per recipe. JillR, if she ran out, would just put one chocolate chip on each cookie. Her kids couldn't wait to eat to the middle of the cookie to get the chocolate chip. She could make a package of chocolate chips last for months. If the cookies had just one chocolate chip in them, they were "Chocolate Chip Cookies," by golly, and no one complained. If you are poor, its legal to B.S. your kids. (That's the law, I think.) But, ya know, if Mama is ok, then all is well at the house.
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7.Hey, and don't forget to buy coffee at the store for Papa and the neighbors who stop by for a Christmas visit.
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8.And, ya know, if ya plan to make Cocoa Mix for the holidays, don't forget the instant milk. I used to make ours with just the instant milk and sugar and cocoa. I mean, if you have the money, it's nice to buy the instant coffee cream to put in it, or a can of the cocoa drink powder, but ya don't need it. The kids won't know the difference, anyway. Be sure to put your cocoa mix in a big fancy jar, or even a coffee can, decorated with old-fashioned Christmas paper and a brown string. Put a third cup measureing cup down in the mix, so the kids know how much to use. And, if you are rich, buy a vanilla bean to stick down in the dry mix. But, if ya ain't rich, buy a few packages of instant vanilla puddng mix to put in the Cocoa Mix. That makes it MMMM Good.
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These are simple things to make, and it will keep you from running to the store all the time. Just fill your pantry with as much as you can so that you can feel free to make a homemade Christmas, and many pots of soups and stews.

Monday, December 21, 2009

First Day of Winter


We awoke to the southern version of a snow, a thick coating of frost that covered the grounds, roof tops, and cars, with overnight temperatures reaching thirty degrees. There is a misty fog suspended effortlessly over the creek. It gives off an eerie, yet serene feeling.



Over the weekend I made sure to refill the bird feeders and put out cracked corn for the wildlife in the hopes that we would have no more cold-weather casualties.



We went to Bass Pro shop to try to get a picture with Santa, but had no luck. The crowd was ridiculous and the line was way too long. We arrived at 12:30pm, a mere thirty minutes after Santa arrived on the scene, and the next "appointment" available that the elves were handing passes out for was 4:30pm! Perhaps we will have better luck next year?




Today the girls and I will start our holiday baking with fudge and sugar cookies. I have planned an easy dinner planned - chili and crackers - which will warm and nourish us.

What are your plans for today?

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Gratitude List ~ Week 50


1. Our bath tub cracked last weekend, but with a $30 kit Alfred was able to repair it saving us $400+.

2. Five gallon buckets that I get for free from my sister's work. I will use them for planting tomato and bell pepper plants this Spring, homemade laundry detergent, to start a compost bin for the garden, and to store goods purchased in bulk.

3. Gift-wrapping will be done today. There will be no wrapping late on Christmas Eve this year!

4. Inspirational reading.

5. Alfred's son, Joel, will be visiting us for a week beginning the day after Christmas!!

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Excitement



The excitement for Christmas continues to build. I will wrap a few gifts today, though they won't go under the tree for Mr. Cheeky (our Yorkie puppy) would surely chew them up! We'll leave Santa a note to drop off gifts in my bedroom to ensure no damages occur.

We have had plenty of rain the past three days with flooding in many areas. Now a cold front has moved in and this weekend will be especially cold with lows in 20s! I'll have to make up a fresh batch of my homemade cocoa mix.

I'll spend the rest of this week giving the house a good cleaning and enlist the family's help in maintaining its cleanliness. Next week I want to focus on baking treats for my family and also to give as gifts to family and neighbors.

How are your Christmas preparations coming along?

Monday, December 14, 2009

Mega Decluttering!


I took the opportunity to clean out the girls' room yesterday while they were gone all day with Alfred. It took me four hours to sort through and reorganize their belongings and clean! I did laundry all day, too.

I filled two egg boxes with clothes and threw away those unsuitable to donate. I also filled a trash bag and another box with papers and junk. Their room is now neat as a pin and a peaceful retreat for them to hang out and rest in.

This Spring their room will get a fresh coat of paint {pink} and Alfred is going to build them floor to ceiling book shelves {crisp white} to go on each side of the closet door. Then all that will be needed is a set of curtains, sheets, and a comforter.

What home projects are you working on?

My Daybook



Outside my window... We are blanketed with a dense fog and there is a stillness in the air.
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I am thinking...of Christmas preparations.
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I am thankful for...each precious new day on this Earth.
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I am wearing...pajamas, as always. :)
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I am remembering...that life is what you make it.
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I am going...to buy groceries and stocking stuffers this week.
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I am reading...inspiring blogs.
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I am hoping...to start working on gifts for next Christmas in January.
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On my mind...those who are hurting, alone, struggling or homeless.
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From the learning rooms...learning through living - whatever the day may bring.
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Noticing that...we have never gone without the things we truly need.
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Pondering the words... How can I connect with my children today, expand their worlds, bring joy into their lives, nurture and encourage what they love to do?
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From the kitchen... banana bread, home-baked cookies, simple hearty meals.
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Around the house... I decluttered the girls room yesterday. Will do more decluttering and cleaning today.
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One of my favorite things...Purring kitties.
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From my picure journal...


Please visit Peggy to read more Daybooks!

Sunday, December 13, 2009

Gratitude List ~ Week 49



1. Except for stocking stuffers, my Christmas shopping is done!

2. Made $196 by selling old gold jewelry we never wear at US Gold after seeing it advertised on tv.

3. The sound of rain on the roof-top as I drift off to sleep.

4. A shiny sink.

5. The freedom of letting go of possessions that no longer add goodness to my life.


 Alfred and I had a long, yet enjoyable day Christmas shopping. With only $300 we shopped from 9am - 4pm, and we got a good amount of gifts for our children. They didn't ask for toys this year, so we purchased things like board games, craft and art supplies, clothes, cds, dvds.

Today Alfred has taken the children with him to Vortex Springs in Ponce de Leon, Florida. He has one dive to do to get his open water dive certification. Our children are all interested in diving; Kayla has already read Alfred's manual and can tell you a great deal about what she's learned about scuba diving. So I have the day all to myself to do as I please. I will probably clean house and do laundry with a nice nap and a Christmas movie thrown in for good measure!

Wishing you a pleasurable Sunday!

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Christmas Shopping



Soon, Alfred and I will bundle up against the cold wind and rain and go shopping for our children's Christmas gifts. I have been looking forward to this for weeks now and the day has finally arrived! We have a cash budget of $300 to spend, wish lists written out, and a list of stores to visit. And I get a few hours alone with my sweetheart. :)

What are you doing on this Saturday?

Friday, December 11, 2009

Creative Christmas




I love giving gifts. Even better, I love giving gifts that won't break the bank and throw our budget into the red. I've been scouring the thrift shops in hopes of suitable gifts...just a little something to let those I love know that I care. Today I found four lovely gifts and two cookie tins for baked goods - all for half off! I spent less than $6 and was able to cross two people off my list.

Christmas isn't about how much money you spent on a gift. You have nothing to prove. Christmas is about love, sharing, and giving from the heart. It's the thought that counts. Jesus gave us the greatest gift of all and it wasn't purchased at some high-end department store or the mall.

Let us open our hearts and give the gifts of our love, time, and attention this holiday season, rather than only from our pocketbooks.

Thursday, December 10, 2009

My Good Habits List


I was reading Sherri's post on Serene Journey about dropping bad habits in order to make way for good habits. As the days of December continue to go by, I can not help but think of the coming New Year and the changes I would like to make. So here's my list of good habits:

1. Eat small meals every two - three hours.
2. Find a variety of exercises I enjoy and exercise daily.
3. Read my Bible every day and pray without ceasing.
4. Become an optimist.
5. Save money.
6. Act on my ideas.
7. Be an encourager.
8. Live generously.
9. Count my blessings big and small.
10. Laugh heartily.
11. Follow my passions.
12. Simplify every area of my life.

What good habits do you want to establish in your life?

Wednesday, December 09, 2009

A Picture


This is me and Alfred at his unit's Christmas party. Isn't he handsome?!!

I won....



Rhonda had a giveaway on her blog and I won!

The generous prizes the prizes are a small Pampered Chef bar board size cutting board, a set of Paula Deen chicken measuring spoons and a knee-length apron sewn my me - red calico with 2 pockets. Isn't that apron precious!

Thank you, Rhonda! 

Simplicity



I am continuing my decluttering quest in order to create space in which to breathe and think with clarity and to simplify my life to the greatest extent possible. I am not too sure how Alfred will take to my ideas of radical simplicity, but the home is my domain and it would certainly make my life and work easier.

Can you believe I had 226 blogs on my favorites list? I have since pared the list down to 75 which is still a lot to be sure, but not nearly as much as it was.

I had a large stack of magazines that had accumulated and I hadn't had time to read them. Instead of trying to go through each and every one, I decided to let them all go. What I don't know, I won't miss.

As I sort through all of our possessions, I have thought about why I have accumulated so many things. I believe a lot of it is due to the fact that I didn't trust my inner knowing. I looked to books and "experts" to tell me how to live my life and acquire perfection. The only problem is life is never perfect and striving for perfection leaves no time for living and enjoying life.
 
Now I am choosing to learn to listen to the authentic longings of my heart. I may make mistakes along the way, but I can learn from them instead of allowing them to drag me down.Today I choose to stitch the individual pieces together to craft an individual, unique life that reflects who I am and who I am becoming.


What are you choosing today?